Do you realize that most of your thinking is done in questions.
What are the questions that you are constantly saying to yourself.
How many times a day do you say to yourself, I would love to be able to do that but I can't, or why does my life always seem to go this way.
Life is supposed to be a fun journey but when you find things that you really like to do, are you going after them, or do you find yourself moving on to your duties or the things that you have to do.
Our days are always filled with the duties of the different hats we wear.
What hats do you have to wear on any given day? Do you have to wear the parent hat, which comes with many different ones too.
You have to be the companion, the leader, the teacher, the therapist, the artist, the entertainer, wow that is a lot of hats and that is just a parent.
Now think about work, are you the leader, the creator, the influencer, the go getter,
Or are you just walking thRough life at the pace that you are being told, you are the employee, the doer, the helper, the assistant, the brains of the business or organization
We all have different roles in life that we have to play
Friend, parent, child, lover, employee or employer, and all of these have different duties within them.
But what about the Hat for you, what about the hat that entertains you, that loves you, the pushes you, that inspires you.
You know you have all of these within you, and unfortunately the world will break you before it builds you.
These are the things that have gone though our lives for so many years, we have been trained to lower our personal standards,
I am not good enough to do that,
Look at that person, wow, i am never going to compete with that,
Why should i be wealthy or have abundance in my life,
These are the self limiting questions that we tell ourselves, but how many of them are true?
NONE OF THEM, but we don’t know that, because you, me and others in this world have constantly been telling ourselves these negative questions, we have been agreeing with the actions of others towards us.
“Your not good enough to do that”
“WHy would you think that would work for you”
“You failed the last time, what makes you think it would work this time?
Now when you hear this kinds of questions, you might think, I don’t have anyone in my life that would ever say those things to me, and well your wrong, you have someone in your life that knows your past, that knows the things that you have failed at, that keeps telling you these limiting beliefs all the time.
And that is you
These questions don't come from outside, they come from inside. When you are in a constant battle with yourself, bringing failures up from the past, how to you everything you will ever get ahead.
Why do you treat yourself worse than you would your closest friend? You would have their back when they were going through something.
So what are the questions that you are saying to yourself and how often are you saying them. Is this a daily practice, where you are constantly having a battle within you about not
being good enough to go after the things that you want in your life?
Today I want you to start to think about this, what words should you practice removing from your vocabulary?
Can’t
Try
Wish
Hope
If only
Should
But
There are a few that you can start with, if you begin to stop using these 7 words, your life would change forever.
Let me give you a couple examples
When you are going for something and you are like I wish i can make that happen, what you are saying is maybe it will happen but i don’t think it will.
Or If only it was this way or if only this happened i could do this
If only i could win the lotto then i could start that business. You know most people who win are bankrupt within 3 years.
Or i could try to do that. One of my favorite quotes is YODA
“DO or do not, there is not try.
Think about something simple like crossing a bridge, can you try to cross the bridge, NO, you are either going to cross it or not cross it.
That is life, you know if your heart and soul if you are going to do something or not do it.
Success is within all of us and you just need to learn to ask better questions.
How are you asking the questions in your life?
Are you going to stop trying to do something and just do it and if you fail, learn from what didn’t work and do something else, and if that doesn’t work do something else until you are where you have visioned you wanted to get to.
You know they have said there are 2 ways things come into this world, first you create a vision in your mind and then you create it physically in this world.
Whatever you think about you bring about, and it is all done by the questions that you are asking yourself.
The questions that you are asking yourself are then implemented upon in your life, and that is how you are going to live.
If you keep using those words that I suggested then you are going to continue to believe them and then are not going to get anywhere in your life.
Because you are just going to think that you are a failure and act like you are a failure and get nowhere,
Think like a learner, someone that if they don’t know how to do the very thing that they are passionate about doing they are going to learn to do it and be successful at it.
How do you do this, by becoming self aware and knowing what thoughts you are creating.
Stop going through life while someone else drives. You are not in a taxi life, don’t keep calling for an Uber
This isn’t a rental life. This is your life. So buy into the life that you want and begin to pay for it with success tax and learning to be the person you want by doing the things that will get you there. Then you will have the live that you in vision
You are going to be working on yourself everyday until you can’t work anymore. Stop trying to be something you are not and begin to live the life that you want.
You aren’t your yesterday, you aren’t your tomorrow. You are right now, in this moment and until you build your tomorrow today it won’t happen.
Create that person in your mind who you wish to become. Then put into action the steps and plan that you need to become that person.
Yes those thoughts will come into your head.
Am I good enough
Am I going to succeed how I want to.
Am I going to have the life I want.
The answer is YES to all.
Think about the people that you follow in IG. They didn’t do any of that with personal growth and telling themselves better questions everyday.
So today I want to finish off by saying.
Start asking yourself better questions. Remove those 7 words from your life.
Can’t
Try
Wish
Hope
If only
Should
But
And create the life that you want!!!!
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